Some Doubts on 'his' Existence!

All over the world every single person is facing problems; natural or unnatural, materialistic or non-materialistic, emotional or financial or of any kind. All of us are searching happiness in materialistic things like money, job or in a person or even ourselves. Some problems are because of expectations, some because of mis-happenings, some because of GOD... Yes, surprising. right? Because of GOD (if he exists).

Last month, an Earthquake destroyed the North-Eastern beauty like it never existed. Not just the beauty of mountains and buildings but also the beauty of people's lives residing there happily. Someone lost his father or mother, brothers, sisters, friends and some lost their whole family.
A 3 year old child was crying sitting beside his mother's corpse. He didn't even know that his mother is dead, he didn't know what are parents, didn't know what life is and faced death & is now an orphan.
Someone met his old friend after a long time, was happy meeting him, he didn't know that this time will be his last time. A man was going home, to meet his family from work expecting to see their faces, all he sees is their corpses. Some people didn't even get to see that.! Lucky they!!
Everything we humans do or happens with us is called fate and everything we get, we get on the account of fate. We (or probably 'he') write(s) our fate.
Since my childhood, I've heard that 'he' loves us , 'he' can never do wrong to us, never let us sleep hungry, he always listens to our prayers, doesn't let us survive with nothing in hand and gives us everything we need.
I want to ask, if he loves us,
     Is this what he gives to the people he loves...Pain!
     Is this what he does to the people who pray to him?
     Is this what a child needs?
     Is this what a family member wanted for his family?
     Is this what a poor man wants to see?
     Is this what every human being desires of?....
       I guess, NO!
I don't know if 'he' loves us or not. But I do know that, it's certainly not the right thing.
If he loves us then it's not, how someone shows his love.
I am aware of the fact that 'Everything Happens For A Reason' but then again...

DOES THE REASON OF EVERYTHING LIE ABOVE THIS LIFE & FATE?